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Graduating with Confidence by Torrey Trust

Looking for the perfect book to prepare you for life after graduation? Check out Graduating With Confidence: A Guide To Making The Most Of Your College Experience With the status of the economy today jobs are becoming harder and harder to find after graduation. College graduates with degrees in every field (Engineering, Biochemistry, Humanities, and Political Science just to name a few) are having a lot of trouble finding jobs after graduation. Many of these graduates end up working in administrative assistant jobs or interning because there aren't any other options. According to the CNN Money article Have Degree - and Pink Slip, "There are currently a record number of unemployed college graduates seeking work. So many, in fact, that they outnumber high school dropouts on the job hunt" (CNN Money.com). If you want to get ahead of the game, then Graduating with Confidence is the perfect book for you. This book will show you how to make the most of your time outside of the classroom in order to define your career goals and take the extra initiative you will need to get that dream job.

Networking Your Way to an Internship/Job

One of the most valuable skills that you should learn during college is networking. If your college offers a networking seminar or presentations on professional development, make sure to save time in your schedule to attend a few of these workshops. Networking means creating a connection between yourself and the other people around you. These people can be participants at an event, members in your organization, or staff and faculty at your college.

Networking plays a key role at campus and community mixers, and professional events. Networking means that when you attend an event, you do not go straight to the food or stand in the corner, instead, you mingle among the other participants. If you are shy, this may be hard for you at first, but it will get easier. And it is a wonderful way to reduce your shyness. A good rule for mingling at events is that it is easier to approach one person or a group, compared to two or three in deep conversation. If you need help starting conversations, try finding a common ground.

Finding a common ground can be a lot easier than you think if you ask the right questions and pay attention to important details, such as shirt or backpack logos or what type of food the person is eating. For example, if you see someone across the room wearing a “Pike Athletics” shirt you already know he was in a fraternity and also might enjoy playing sports. Regardless of your interest in sports or Greek Life, you can still approach this person and ask him what he enjoyed most about being in a Fraternity or what sports he played. He may end up talking about doing a philanthropy event with his fraternity, which you were also involved with in college, and now you have something to chat about.

There are many other questions you can ask to start a conversation, including:
  • What brings you to this event?
  • Where do you work (or what are you majoring in)?
  • Where did you graduate?
  • Where are you originally from?
It is very important to recognize that people enjoy talking about themselves, their family and friends, or recent events in their lives. If you keep asking questions, sooner or later you will find something that you both have in common.

When networking, set a goal of getting five business cards, email addresses, or even Facebook friend invites by the end of the event. Take a little note pad with you to write information down in case people don’t have business cards. When you make notes, write down one thing in common that you have with them or something that person said that stood out to you. This way when you want to email that person later (maybe even a year or two later for a job reference), you can start the email with where you met them then add a question such as “How are your two sons doing?” or “How is your screenplay coming along?” Then add something personal about yourself. This will help them remember you.

It is also good for you to have a few business cards to pass out. These cards can simply have your name, your major or field of interest, and your e-mail address. You can create your cards on your computer using Word, and then print them out on Avery business card paper, or you can have them printed at business service company such as Kinkos.

Many professional people take special note of students who come prepared with business cards. If you don’t have any business cards, make sure to email the people who gave you their cards to thank them or say it was nice meeting them. This way they will have your contact information and can contact you if a job or internship opportunity opens up.

Also, if you are at a professional or networking event, try to have an “elevator speech” prepared. This is a 30-second statement with your name and a description of the most important things about you (I’m majoring in…I am currently working on research for… I am the team captain of...). So when you are asked, “tell me more about yourself,” you can be ready with a very professional response.
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      Torrey Trust was actively involved in student affairs both during college and after graduation. She graduated Cum Laude from UC San Diego and was honored with the Thurgood Marshall Dean's Office Oceanid's Award for outstanding service to the college and community and the Alumni Association's Campus Community Award. Trust worked in Academic and Student Affairs at UC San Diego from 2008-2010.
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    "I wish someone had given this to me as a freshman! It's all things you think of but never really do, definitely a good find." - Elizabeth Knapick (college graduate)

    "This book should be required reading for graduating high school students and all college students who would like to actually get a job after they graduate! If you're in college or thinking of going to college...read this book! Don't end up with a college degree and no job prospects. This book will show you how to tie all of your college experiences together in order to prepare you for the 'real world.'" - Beth Jackson (mother of 2 college students)

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